There are many modern oral sex techniques, but everything new, as you know, is a long-forgotten old, so it is always interesting to find out how everything happened in antiquity.
This is not only informative but also useful, because there is always a risk of missing something. And you want to give your partner only the best and as much as possible. Therefore, take note of how oral sex was treated in India, and how famous all over the world Indian courtesans gave blowjobs.
Not all women like to give blowjobs, some still believe that only men can enjoy this process. But this is absolutely not the case and the wrong approach to business can ruin your relationship because any man wants oral sex.
Therefore, you do not need to turn up your nose and try to translate the topic. Better explore the issue, change your attitude towards it and pick up a couple of tricks that your loved one will definitely appreciate.
Why do men love blowjobs so much?
On the one hand, everything is obvious. They love this process because it is enjoyable. But the essence of the issue lies much deeper and has been studied by both ancient philosophers and modern Western psychologists.
Even in infancy, we receive love, comfort, and nourishment by suckling on our mother’s breasts. This is the first link in the chain of associations between oral gratification and sex. The connection between food, nutrition and sex is well known in psychology. The recent fascination with oral-genital sex in the West is very likely a consequence of our transition from breastfeeding to formula-feeding. N. Douglas and P. Slinger “Secrets of Oriental Sex”
Thus, it is quite understandable that when receiving oral sex, a man feels a deep intimacy with a woman and his own nature. This process, as it were, recreates those natural feelings of security, vitality, and unity with nature. That is why men love to kiss women’s breasts so much, and accordingly love it when women caress their genitals.
Esoteric view of oral sex
From the point of view of esotericism, and the Kama Sutra is precisely an esoteric text, at the time of oral sex, people simultaneously exchange both lower and upper energies. And the shape of the female labia for a reason has a similar shape with the mouth. So, a man during sex should kiss a woman not only on the lips, but be sure to do cunnilingus, and a woman – a blowjob. The genital organs are considered a source of vital energy, both in women and in men. On a physiological level, this is reflected by the mixing of your secretions from arousal with saliva.
Oral sex in Kama Sutra
In Hinduism, the waste of male semen was condemned. It was believed that it should not be spent, as this disrupts the natural course of events and kills the life force.
If a man makes love to his wife by putting his organ into her mouth, then the ancestral spirits eat the semen that is shed. Vasisthadharmashastra (Hindu law book)
But despite this, oral sex was practiced in an attempt to control ejaculation. And the blowjob itself was generally considered a special technique in the art of massage and was called the “Eight-Part Kiss”.
We see how sacred this ritual was for the Hindus. It is clear that now few people perceive oral, and indeed any other kind of sex, so deeply. But it is precisely in this that the depreciation that is now happening with intimacy, and as a result, with human relationships, in principle, lies. Therefore, it is absolutely necessary to sometimes turn to ancient scriptures in order to keep in touch with those understandings that were so obvious to people, but for some reason were forgotten and leveled. Maybe then, the relationship between a man and a woman will finally become harmonious and kind.
