Why does every woman need to talk more about sex? Here are 7 unexpected reasons why sex should be discussed more boldly.
For a long time, sex was a taboo topic in society, and now it is still difficult for us to speak openly on such topics, even with a partner. We explain why it is important to talk about sex, but not to be ashamed of this topic.
1. Talking about sex helps build healthy relationships
Tabooing this topic often does not allow us to build a healthy relationship with a partner, because we are just ashamed to talk about it. When in a relationship you do not know what exactly your partner likes, what his sexual fantasies are, the quality of intimate life is significantly reduced. But when you start talking about it more often, you will have new ideas for implementation in bed. Or maybe not just in bed.
2. Such conversations make free
Gender socialization is often the reason why you don’t talk about sex freely and without shame. Simply put, it’s all because you were raised that way. Remember: maybe the topic of sex was taboo in your family, or sexual education ended up trying to intimidate you and saying “Sex is ah-ah-ah, it’s bad!”
Women are often tried to be brought up not so free in sex: in some cultures, it is still not accepted and terribly embarrassing if a woman talks about sex or lives an intimate life that suits her.
Sex is not a dirty word. This is normal.
3. It is socially just
Yes, and now we will mention feminism. Have you noticed how freely men talk about sex? Sometimes even too loose and with unwanted details.
Intimate is neither secret nor sacred. But this does not mean that we need to talk about sex in general everywhere and on any occasion. You have to understand that you can talk about sex, and there is nothing wrong with that.
4. Significant improvement in life
For adults, sex is an important part of a relationship. Sex allows you to get closer to your partner, in a new, intimate way.
But if a person considers sex something dirty or even worse – sacred and mysterious, he just starts to stop at this issue. For example – there is excessive shyness, complexity, misunderstandings. A person who is ashamed to talk about sex is often left without sexual education. And sexual education is the proper use of contraceptives, security issues, and debunking myths about sex.
5. You will receive support and answers to your questions
Imagine that during sex there was curiosity or an unpleasant situation. If you are free to talk about sex, for example – with friends, you can talk to them and get advice, or share a funny moment.
But if the topic of sex in conversations is taboo for you, it can even be dangerous, because silence can often be a breeding ground for abuse.
6. Taboo on the topic of sex isolates
Exactly. Sex is a normal part of a person’s life, and when it becomes taboo, there is a feeling of isolation from others. You can sometimes feel completely alone in your problems, not even realizing that the answer to your question not only exists but is simpler than you think.
7. You will feel and defend your needs
If a person is open to sex and this topic in conversations, he knows how to learn and explore his body and needs, he will get more pleasure from intimate life. And there will be no more boring sex.
