Blowjob is a delicate matter. We have already written about how to give a blowjob, talked about the most stupid myths about oral sex, and now it’s time to work on the mistakes.
What mistakes do most women make during a blowjob?
Give a blowjob when you don’t feel like it
The main rule of a normal sex life is when both partners enjoy sex, and not one sacrifices their comfort or pleasure just to please the other. However, for most couples, this unhealthy situation is repeated every time: he enjoys it, and she chokes and hates this process itself. Well, so-so pleasure.
The main mistake you make during a blowjob is when you force yourself to do it. If you don’t feel like it, don’t like it, and generally “fu, remove it,” then this is your right and your choice. A man has no right to put pressure on you with phrases like “well, they still do it” and “well, please me.”
Sacrifice your pleasure
A rather silly blowjob mistake is to forget about yourself and sacrifice your pleasure. A normal partner will be very embarrassed if his loved one does not enjoy sex during sex, and you are unlikely to get an orgasm in this situation. It’s worth taking matters into your own hands. Literally.
Teeth and blowjob
Where to put your teeth during a blowjob? If you have false teeth, the question is generally nonsense, but if there is nowhere to put your teeth, well, you should remember the main rule: “Do not use your teeth!”
All the guys are unanimous on this issue – you should not use your teeth during a blowjob at all. Even as a joke. Even a little. A firm “No!” Of course, if you accidentally touch your teeth, this is not a tragedy at all, but the main thing is not to bite.
Do a “deep blowjob”
Unless, of course, you want to choke, fight the gag reflex and cause the body to feel the deepest bewilderment (“What the hell is this crazy woman up to, are we in danger or not?”). Deep-throating is a waste of time and resources because the only very sensitive part of the penis is the head. And it touches the palate or the back wall of the throat – it does not play any role.
All these fairy tales that a deep blowjob will bring a fabulous orgasm to a man remain the same fairy tales. The only thing that this technique can bring is a fabulous gag reflex that occurs in response to an alien something in the throat. It can also vomit if you had a delicious romantic dinner before the blowjob. Well, it’s something.
Wrong position during blowjob
The wrong position during a blowjob is one in which you are uncomfortable. The leader in inconvenience is the classic 69 pose, which looks beautiful and comfortable only when you are not participating in it.
Blowjob and 69 position is a real challenge and are suitable for those who want to combine sex with the plank exercise. And always doing a blowjob on your knees while your partner is standing or sitting on a chair is very bad for your knees and neck. It’s easier to get on the bed.
