Sociopsychologists – laughter offers several ways to protect yourself from lustful colleagues.
Protection No. 1: Blazers against intimacy
To go to work, choose things that the stronger sex does not like. Psychologists have proven that sexual things (a short skirt or an open blouse) increase men’s interest in women by 45%.
And vice versa, trousers or a skirt below the knee, jackets, loose blouses, although a little (by 20%), but reduce interest.
Protection No. 2: You need to “lower”
At work, it is preferable to wear low-heeled shoes that deprive your walk of eroticism (you won’t shake your hips in them!). Also, the shorter you are, the less likely you are to be seen as a sexual object. Low growth gives the figure childishness and makes it non-sexual.
Defense #3: Nothing fancy…
Behave like a true professional. Do not talk with a man on personal topics (complaints of boredom, depression, and love failures are especially unacceptable). It is possible to discuss a new film or renovation in an apartment, but not for long.
If you talk to a colleague about non-work topics for more than 10 minutes, he perceives this as a sign of personal interest. The so-called “mythical man” will help to avoid problems. If you don’t have a man, invent one. The already existing competition will stop many.
Do not give a man compliments that are not related to his work: he may take politeness for showing interest. Do not joke with men on erotic topics.
Frequently ask male co-workers about their wives or girlfriends. If possible, try to get to know them. No sane person would harass a woman who knows his wife.
Defense #4: Shut up, body, shut up!
Many women believe that they do not flirt at work, but the men around them have a different opinion. Men perceive body language: unconscious movements and gestures.
Keep in mind: an eye-to-eye look provokes a man to get to know you better. When talking with a colleague or boss, it is better not to keep your eyes on him, but to look at the table.
When talking with a colleague, stop the habit of playing with an object in your hands. A man may interpret this as a sign of nervousness caused by sexual desire.
Sitting down in front of a man at work, it is better to cross your legs: legs brought together indicate a refusal to have sex. Do not straighten your hair in front of men, do not stroke your hair. Don’t lick your lips too much, it subconsciously makes him dream about oral sex with you.
Protection No. 5: Girlfriends – laughter
When you come to work, immediately get yourself, permanent friends. Try to be seen together: at dinner, going home. Let everyone know that if you have problems, you have someone to share with.
